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„Here’s the ten bucks you let me borrow, sorry it took so long, I hope you aren’t angry at me“
I gave this person money?
hey free money, nice
I only hold one single grudge in my life. The one fucker in high-school who took the accountant role when my mother died of cancer, took the money my class raised for my family, and spent them on luxury stuff for himself.
You mean you don’t hyper fixate on a few uncomfortable moments from your past and hold grudges based on those?
I do this often, so not sure every ADHD symptom is common to everyone.
I barely remember my own life so I indeed don’t hold grudges because I have no idea why I held them or if it was actually my fault that something happened.
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I mean, i do that too, but it’s always something i did rather than something others did to me.
When others are shitty to me, it usually doesn’t stick with me for long, because although bad at the moment, it wasn’t my fault, so i’m guilt free.
I like to turn the grudge inward. Me am my nemesis, bane to others and self
Seriously. I don’t have the energy to keep track of that shit. If somebody was shitty to me they just get labeled as “not friend” and get treated like an acquaintance. Anything more requires me to care about them in some way, and I have shit to do.
Mine is a fun sort of specific. Years later, I’ll remember that I hate a person’s guts but will completely forget why I hate them. But that visceral hate stays with me.
I recently had a conversation with my ex-fiancée of 15 years and she was apologizing for things I didn’t even remember her doing. But I remember the bitterness from those things.
Wait, bad memory is a sign of ADHD?
I mean that’s a lot of things and also can be normal. Don’t tik tok yourself a diagnosis considering even different psychs will come up with different conclusions. I’m dealing with that now trying to get a diagnosis one says def adhd the other thinks bipolar… another depression. They just pick something. There’s like no science behind psychology I swear.
It bothers me to an absurdely strong degree that random words are capitalized.
Not random. They are capitalizing words for emphasis, similarly to if they said it as big of me or hold grudges — using title case like that also makes it seem like it’s a sort of monolithic idea worthy of a formal noun, like Always remember to Brush Your Teeth!
Even then…those are weird parts of the sentence to emphasize.
