and, don’t you notice something rubbing against it when you move?

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      That’s the first couple steps on a long and possibly terrifying road. Sometimes not knowing is more comfortable. You’ve been warned.

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        Eh, it’s not “terrifying” it’s just a kink thing and it tends to get a lot of unwarranted negativity (imo because of insecure people). It’s definitely not for everyone but, as with nearly all things sexual, it’s never a bad idea to investigate things just to see if you’re into it.

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          I’m sure some people find it disturbing or terrifying. Certainly not all. As for whether people are into it or not, it’s their life and I’m not going to tell them what to do.

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          I’m secure about my sexuality and I still don’t like cages - but more because if I’m with a cute submissive guy I really really want to play with his cock y’know, and if he’s not going to let me that’s a bit of a deal breaker

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      Chastity cage! =D

      To help stop you jerking off. Getting super pent up and horny really really heightens anal for me, and it puts me in a fun subby headspace, even by myself

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        Thank you! Another commenter said I should be cautious before googleing it and I imagined pictures of Goatse but x5 intensity. This is kinky, but no more kinky than having a plug in all day.