You’ve been upset enough to call her a brat for calling “us all racist” (whoever “us” is), treating it as a personal attack on yourself, when its not actually applying to you. Only to then get defensive and change your reasoning when called out on it.

These two are not the same;

the brat from Kentucky decided to call us all racists

I call her a brat because she’s using her identity (and the black community) as a shield

Whichever way it is, or how upset you actually are, it seems very misplaced.