• xmunk@sh.itjust.works
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    1 year ago

    Why do so many folks carry so much hatred inside… it’s so self-destructive and detrimental to society.

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      1 year ago

      Prison sex. Not literally that’s just a song by Tool, but basically someone hurt me so I’m gonna hurt you.

      They aren’t bright enough to figure out that just continues the cycle.

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      Harm done to them by other people, and justifiably and rationally looking for answers to how/why/what/where/when/who, so they can make the harm less likely to be repeated in the future by altering their behavior appropriately.

      With special emphasis on the “who”, because it’s easier, when they should be focusing on the “how” and “why”. The “why” part is the most important, but also hardest to tackle.

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        1 year ago

        Right on the money. Psychologically, the best defense is a good offense. Socially, it’s not the best choice for building communities.