we should have the power to decide for ourselves instead of some biased admins.

So admins shouldn’t defederate from any instances at all? Even right wing Nazi instances with Nazi flags in every profile?

The only people who disagree with this are those who want to control what other people get to see.

Yes, they want to protect their users from harmful instances. This is something the people who join those instances want.

They also want to “deplatform” those types from society as a whole.