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IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What do you support in terms of resistance to White supremacist settler colonialism ?1·3 days agowhat about people who lived through 200 years of occupation ?
IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•what would it take for you to take back a partner who cheated on you ?14·3 days agoIf you will never forgive cheating ever that is fine that is your boundary I can not tell you what to do I am not arguing you have a moral obligation to forgive cheating.
However I argue that in your emotional and material best interest you should keep dialog open and see what they offer and try to make it work
IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What do you support in terms of resistance to White supremacist settler colonialism ?35·3 days agoyikes first off white genocide is a myth
second indigenous people fighting for their land back is not white genocide.
IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What do you support in terms of resistance to White supremacist settler colonialism ?22·3 days agoI do agree this is a more complicated question then many think
For example I don’t see any indigenous rights activist advocating for land back in turkey and for the turks to give it back to the Greeks
You don’t see anyone advocating arabs give Egypt back to the copts.
Twitch is owned by Amazon one of the biggest companies in human history they are not the underdog they could give more money if they wanted.
the only stuff I watch on Kick is the Kino Casino and Mad at the Internet
Twitch allows law breakers to stream
Extra Emily for example streamed herself running a red light which is a crime she wasn’t banned. She was also streaming while driving against Twitch tos but again not banned
Hasan pike was recently standing in the road to block it that is against California law and is a dangerous illegal activity to Twitch tos yet he isn’t banned.
That is the worst part
the kick people are loyal to Kick for reasons they like the revenue split or the fact it’s either there or nothing
the twitch people are loyal to Twitch because it’s Twitch
IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Any advice on getting back together with a partner you cheated on ? Tips for reconciliation ?12·3 days agoWell he is wback with me also tons of men date women with onlyfans.
He gets tons of fun perks
A lot of sex including kinky roleplay like ddlg,rp and ap to make him feel powerful
Dates and sex with my female friends
Money, I am his paypig how many men would kill for that
I think all it is. Is that the Twitch loyalist like Hasan Piker and Pokemane either like Twitch,the community and staff or more likely have exclusivity deals and don’t want to lose their viewership to Kick.
That is fine I guess but stop trying t make it a proletarian struggle
The founders of Kick are not really Shady. They are very out loud and proud it’s Serbian Australian Ed Craven AKA Eddie and an Iranian Bijan Tehrani. They just seem like guys I guess IDK what’s shady about them.
As a leftist I will say that Kick does seem to be right win coded in the sense they don’t moderate as much which generally benefits the right look at 4chan,X and Kiwi Farms.
IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Any advice on getting back together with a partner you cheated on ? Tips for reconciliation ?14·3 days agowhy would America be cooked ?
What is even wrong with what we are doing >
IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Any advice on getting back together with a partner you cheated on ? Tips for reconciliation ?05·3 days agoThat is objectively correct, do you really want to dispute this basic fucking fact ? Yikes just Yikes
IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Any advice on getting back together with a partner you cheated on ? Tips for reconciliation ?15·3 days agoHe wants me and all the fun times and wholesome memories we will share together.
Even shifting away from the sappy hallmark stuff for a second. I am ok with him fucking other girls he isn’t going to find that from any other girls. I trust him I know he loves me and he deserves to have fun.
IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Any advice on getting back together with a partner you cheated on ? Tips for reconciliation ?12·3 days agoPlease don’t ever believe this. It’s just internalized misogyny. If you’re in a relationship where you’re giving more than you’re getting, that’s a horrible relationship and you should leave.
I find this accusation funny because I am a feminist and I used to be misandrist in that sort of tumbler way I didn’t like mean it but I said a lot of stuff that hurt him and of course I cheated.
I think this lead to me self sabotaging our relationship because I loved him but felt like showing it was selling out. I did a lot of stupid stuff like the no porn rue, I said that I preferred penises larger then his in front of him to a friend (I was lying and I apologized afterwards) and I even tried charging him for sex because I felt men didn’t appreciate a woman’s value and I was a big believer in that dworkin quote that a husband is basically a john.
IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Any advice on getting back together with a partner you cheated on ? Tips for reconciliation ?16·3 days agoI want to add some other context, so this boy is just a great person. He is the one that got e t quit, he worked overtime to pay for my rehab at a nice in person cent and I loved it so much it’s what got me to quit and I still have friends from there. He help tutor kids he is just good.
He also has not had a great life, he has moderately wealthy parents but they were obsessed with making him earn everything. They made him get a job at age 15, that doesn’t sound too bad but this job was installing hvac systems uner houses in the california summer. He had to crawl under houses deal with hvac tubing insulation and yes bugs and snakes. Also his dad died as a teenager
The reason I bring this up is because I have as I gotten sober did more thinking on the world and doing the work to make a change. The thing I hate most about life is bad people win, Trump,Elon Musk,Jeff Bezos the works. I feel by making the small sacrifice of having a sub optimal relationship dynamic I am making it so that for once the good guy wins.
Again I have not always been the best girlfriend or even person. I was an addict I stole and sold to support my habit I cheated on him several times I was hypocritical not letting him watch porn while I cheated on him was sexually stingey .
I feel I have something to make up for and I will not run I will face the consequences of my actions
Everyone knows that men benefit more from relationships then women, I am taking on that burden to make it up to him
IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Any advice on getting back together with a partner you cheated on ? Tips for reconciliation ?18·3 days agoWe will, also I have all sorts of fun stuff lined up for him.
I will set him up with other girls, I didn’t even let him watch porn when we were first dating boy how things change.
I will be more sexually and emotionally available.
I want to be his best friend and do more stuff with shared interest in the like. Watching shows and playing games together
IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldOPto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•Any advice on getting back together with a partner you cheated on ? Tips for reconciliation ?110·3 days agoI do love him and we had technically gotten back together before he inherited
Second me and him have worked out an agreement he gets 25% of my onlyfans revenue a month and it’s just my rent. This was a big issue for both of us because I do see why he does’t find it fair and I did do it while we were together without telling him.
At first I was bummed about the rent but now I have accepted it. I like the idea of pulling my weight he had ore stable employment then me so he helped me a lot even for rehab so I owe it t him. Also his best friend wanted to stay with him and offered him 2k a month I make a bout 5k a month so it’s less but still. The way I see it I get cheaper rent then like anywhere else in the San Fernando Valley and it goes to my boyfriend not some greedy landlord.
Also we don’t want to break up. I have been through so much with him and he has done so much for me. He likewise knows that dating is hard especially where we live it’s not like he has girls sliding into his dms to replace me.
He has gifted me the gift of reconciliation and I will not take it for granted I have so much to give
IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•In order to have a stable society, must we prioritize identity first, then loyalty, and only then morality focused on protecting and preserving our in-group?13·3 days agoAn issue with identity debates is both sides don’t recognize the other’s identity as valid
Everyone knows how the right does this with the bible thumpers saying you choose to be gay
The leftist version is on race, simplest I can put it right wing people believe race is an objective measurable ethnocultural grouping while leftist see it as a inherently exclusionary social construct
IloveyouMF@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What is reason behind boom of onlyfans in usa?22·3 days agoso fun fact there are dudes who have a fetish for censored porn. I am not making this up lol.
A gold digger would not give her boyfriend 25% of her monthly income.