Reddit veteran - modded various subs, including personal r/JustBecause9999998.

Interests: large labia, slim/skinny, flatchested, femdom, chastity, sounding, piercings, D/s

See https://lemmynsfw.com/c/b98_faves

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Cake day: June 18th, 2023

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  • Voted in poll.

    I think only allowing community members to vote is a reasonable solution. This is similar to political parties and having primaries, so it’s not a radical idea.

    If one is not invested in a community and not contributing (in whatever ways), just stay quiet and observe on the sidelines.

    If one is invested, then by all means take the time to subscribe and truly help build a community with your engagement (even if just by silent voting).

    I’m confident there will be some known trolls and haters who simply like to downvote for the fun of it and they will spitefully subscribe to every imaginable community to demonstrate their “right to downvote”. 😂 Bless them…


  • It’s now over a week and it seems things generally have improved. A lot more different posters, but niche content and OC have not increased much yet. A lot more postings of popular redgifs links by non-OC reposters.

    Just some unscientific observations - based on my own posts into small niche focused communities:

    • more people seem to have switched to viewing own subscribed feed.
    • not excessive amounts of upvotes, to be expected for small communities and small number of subscribers. I want my niche communities to be small and intimate of mostly interested/engaged subscribers, not just passersbys.
    • some haters seem to have started abandoning LemmyNSFW (or blocked me/my comms which is totally good, as that’s the way its supposed to work for stuff one has no interest in seeing)







  • The truth is that mods and admins don’t have advanced monitoring tools yet like automod to detect certain behaviors and derogatory words/phrases and to filter. So yes, We do need help from the rest of the instance’s members to help identify/report unwanted behavior.

    I don’t know who the admin is that removed the post you referenced, but IMO it would have sent a stronger message to ban that member (and ask questions later)

    maybe a few trusted volunteers who could offer Mod assistance on “self-communities”, an Admin assigned to overlook the biggest “self-communities” …

    Admins/mod teams definitely could use lots more trusted volunteers and help. Can we count on you to help/advise? 😊



  • And as for the outright disrespect @b9999998 , Annabelle’s most recent post proves exactly what sort of shit is being let slide:

    As I said in my reply, this type of toxic trolling is what needs to be reported to admins (since the comment you referred to is in Annabelle’s own community, we mods on other communities can’t do much outside of our communities - but admins can take action via instance-wide rule 2

    Of course, the disgusting part is that many other trolls up voted that comment, and I’m truly saddened by that.

    I can say for myself that in any of the communities i mod (including at Reddit), a comment like that toward some OC poster like Annabelle in this context will be deleted and member banned from community when reported - caveat, it does require bringing stuff like this to mods and admins attention.

    [Addition] @Rainbow_Spit@lemmynsfw.com, I don’t know what your experiences were, but I hope you"ll share with admins some of your own specifics. Also, if you look at the sidebar/rules of https://old.reddit.com/r/ButterflyWings, and https://old.reddit.com/r/DangleAndJingle, you can see how I started those subs and the culture of zero tolerance for trolls and rude members, and have encouraged many OC posters to post in harassment-free communities for 4+ years now.