For now my NAS it not really running anything (I want to have proper DNS/IDM before starting any other service and for storage I think I may go with owncloud ocis or nextcloud)

I am still using my ISP’s router, so the firewall rule is on the NAS (for now it is almost a do it all server), otherwise I would run the pihole on the router I think

Do you have any idea on how to do it ? Knowing that I am on opensuse

Thank you for the reply. It is exactly this

Drew DeVault (sway, sourcehut, hare… creator) wrote an article on this exact topic, asking autistic people on mastodon what they think of it. The tldr is that autistic people (those who answered) hate this excuse because they rather know when they make people uneasy to try to adjust, and also that if we need to tolerate this kind of discourse to make room for a minority of autistic people, then we are not doing a good job because it makes a lot of people really uneasy.

So, for nextcloud and automatic torrenting it should not be too bad to protect windows users ?

Truth is : either they are a infrastructure provider and they allow everything inside the free speech of each country they operate in, either they choose what gets promoted or is allowed differently from the local free speech and they are an editor. They can’t (and imho should never have been allowed to) choose only the benefits of each one without any obligation.

I don’t selfhost mail but I heard of stalwart

I recently found a video talkkng about privacy. One of the topic was that privacy does not ring any bell in people’s mind. Contrary to intimacy. Maybe we should all replace privacy by intimacy so we can tell what is really implied to non software people