• barsoap@lemm.ee
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    1 year ago

    That it’s bigger than you and stuff. I never liked that because it takes the responsibility away from the person.

    You are free to conceptualise the higher power as your subconscious, or the genome, or whatever. As to responsibility: The flipside of that is shame: If, on the precipice of being well, you get hit by “oh am I stupid I did everything wrong I ruined my life it’s all my fault” you don’t want responsibility. You want acceptance.

    …this thought brought to you by your friendly neighbourhood Stoic. I bring this up because the serenity prayer is actually 110% Stoicism:

    God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference.

    May you have exactly that.