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    Oh, my. I think I’m getting the girl-horny already. Somebody please send help… no, wait, lesbians. Send lesbians.

    Seriously, though, my wife’s basically asexual and my original solo playbook is not going to cut the mustard. What do?

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      haha, magic wand with a cord (not battery) and an amp speed controller

      EDIT: I found orgasms became a lot more mental / emotional for me, so exploring literary erotica or other means of supportive fantasies might help? Especially helpful to look for erotica or material made for women and/or that centers women’s pleasure.

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        Aha, yes, there’s always that :3

        I like the idea of literary erotica. Certainly visual media doesn’t really do anything for me any more, which was pretty surprising.

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        Huh. I wonder if that was a sign horny teenage me wasn’t aware of; always had a preference for written porn (Fanfiction dot net, you served me well!); that might’ve been due to it actually loading on the browser of my DSi tho xD

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          It’s not an uncommon story for transfems as I understand, I was also unusual this way (no other teenage boys I knew read erotica, but some of my female friends did).