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Cake day: July 23rd, 2023

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  • I feel like it’s just the opposite.

    Try designing something without instructions or a template. You’ll run into a thousand little issues you didn’t realize needed to be considered.

    That’s true of software, sure. But it’s also true if you want to make a wooden dresser without plans or build an rc airplane from scratch.

    In my experience, things are rarely as simple as they first seem.
















  • I can’t speak for all men because I’ve only really known a few dozen of them well enough to judge. But I don’t remember me or any of my friends having or needing one of those moments.

    The forgiveness thing is legit though. Our kids remember ALL the times we fucked up. Frustrated remarks that would roll off your spouses back are not forgotten by kids - because it hurts them more.